Blogging, Coffee, Push-Notifications & the Matrix

While making a Saturday morning fresh pot of coffee, I had this moment of clarity (sips coffee)

It helped me to appreciate the value of setting boundaries and limitations with activities that hinder my personal growth and peak performance abilities

Including and especially my social media activity (sips coffee).

I realized when I grabbed two of my phones for my morning run just two hours earlier, (one for music and one for wifi) just how problematic my addiction to social media had become.

After all, I’m only gone for 20- 30 minutes tops for my 2 mile run every morning. What is the big deal why I felt the need to bring along my 2nd phone with wifi, just incase I felt like posting a video, or checking to see if I had any new notifications?

My Inner Self told me there was nothing in that phone that was more important than working on my own dreams. There is nothing more exciting in that phone than the awesome projects I get to work on on my day off today. And that is exactly how I learned to see things today.

“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” – Dr Wayne Dyer

No longer will I check my phone, mindlessly scrolling through other peoples’ lives while neglecting my own. (sips coffee)

So back to this morning’s epiphany while making my coffee… I suddenly realized the root of my problem of lack of focus and inability to concentrate for longer than 5 minutes.

As a society, our minds are always way over stimulated with all the social media app push notifications features constantly screaming for our attention 24/7, no matter what time of day or night, rather at work or with family or even while sleeping in the middle of the night

Push Notifications, Be Gone!

The only logical solution to my problem was to turn OFF the push notification features, PERMANENTLY. And that is what I attempted to do (sips coffee) …

Until realizing there is no way to completely turn off push notifications.

Now I’m forced to either log out or remove my fb app entirely to avoid these “time stealing, concentration blocking” push notifications that just won’t seem to go away!.

FYI- logging out of fb does stop push notifications but you still get distracted with the regular notifications every time you view your home screen. So I took it a step further after logging out and removed the app from my home screen. Jeesh!

Considering the hundreds or even thousands in some cases of pages we follow on line, I realized today that one can never possibly keep up with every detail of everyone’s social media life (nor is it healthy to even try) and still be great. We have to select and chose 1.

We can either be informed of every little detail in everyone else’s social media life, or we may discipline ourselves to stop scrolling, unplug from the matrix, and Be Great. What a moment of clarity!

This epiphany got me to realizing just how much the world is truly becoming just like the 1999 hit film, The Matrix on so many levels. On one hand we are practically turning into vegetable-brain-like zombies in real life living vicariously through social media pics, while on the other fitting somewhere into the 3 categories of social media;

  • (1) super stars,
  • (2) those trying to become superstars, or
  • (3) silent watchers.

I’ve therefore decided to stay off of social media on the weekends, unless working and to only use my social media platforms for growing my business.

Weekends will be devoted shabbat, bible study, catching up with work and connecting with family.

Unplugging from The Matrix

The over stimulation is more than I can handle any more. This lack of concentration has been going on for months now, while I literally black out for hours scrolling through dozens of social media posts that do nothing to serve me or move me any closer to my goals and vision. (sips coffee;)

Slow Down & Taste the Coffee

This is some really good coffee by the way. I never would have taken the time to notice had I been caught up in another 3 hour block-out on social media

Nor would I have gotten my blog post done for the week.

I enjoy sipping coffee and blogging Saturday mornings, even if just for the love of it; so from now on this is how I will spend my Saturday mornings — instead of scrolling through social media (sips coffee with satisfaction).

Thanks for reading 😉

Love,

P

Mental Muscle

When it comes to doing IPA (Income Producing Activities) I often feel like I do when at the gym and it’s time to do some squats or straight-leg raises for a kick-ass lower ab work out. Deep down inside I know that these two exercises which also happen to be the most painful to me will do more to sculpt my body in my trouble areas than any other exercise. The irony is that the most powerful result-producing activities/exercises I should be doing at the gym are what I least desire to do; yet I somehow manage to desire the most powerful results, a 6 pack 22 in waist with a round perfectly sculpted 36 booty. Well, if you’ve ever worked out at the gym for an extended period of time, then I’m sure you know like I know that the body just doesn’t work that way– in fact, neither does life or business.

We often want to make the most money by doing the least income-producing activities in our business most; like posting a lifestyle post on Instagram or Facebook, then expecting the floodgates of conversions and 5 figure months to come hurling in. When I say least income producing activities, this is not to negate the intrinsic value in sharing a lifestyle post with your followers, but a lifestyle post alone isn’t going to hurl in instant conversions and 5 figure months for the most part. Or how about always posting positive quotes and memes but never following up with warm prospects to convert them to paying customers out of fear of rejection? We’ve all been there. We’d rather do the light weight stuff, like walking on the treadmill to tone our legs rather than grabbing those 15 pound dumb-bells and really going in on burning and sweating those thighs and gluts out with 3 sets of painful squats. As the saying goes, ‘No pain no gain.’

Successful entrepreneurs start their day going straight for the highest IPA they can muster, rather than procrastinating and messing around with checking email, scrolling through facebook for 3 hours or organizing files. Successful people go straight for the jugular upon awakening. In other words, immediately after a 60 minute morning ritual, successful people tackle their day by ‘eating the bull-frog first‘. Eat the bull-frog first is an expression, referencing the high-rewarding notion of getting the most uncomfortable, anxiety-producing task of the day out of the way early, which is tantamount to eating your vegetables, most gross thing on your plate first, so that the rest of the day then becomes smooth sailing. You’re no longer walking around with tension and anxiety in your belly all day while procrastinating the inevitable uncomfortable IPAs you know needs to be done. So you just dive in, eating that ugly, hairy bullfrog on your plate, or making that first phone call of the day to a warm prospect. When you begin to tackle the critical tasks of your day early, by noon for example the rewards are endless.

For one, you will be making more money than you’ve ever made before, just as you would be losing more weight than you’ve ever lost before. And once you become an expert at making more money or losing more weight than the average, your confidence will soar to new levels you never knew were possible for you. The ripple effect of these two factors alone, will transform you into a success magnet. Suddenly those painful activities will feel a lot less painful when you begin to see daily double and triple digit deposits in your accounts.

Self-Development Exercise:
Keep a picture of a bullfrog tape to a wall of your home office where you will see it first thing in the morning when you rise as a daily reminder to eat the bull frog first. By the law of compensation, law of belief, law of harvest, law of averages, law of attraction, law of inertia, law of cause and effect you will begin to attract the desired results in your business. I talk about these spiritual Universal laws in my book, 6 Figure Mindset coach: Change Your Philosophies, Change Your Life which you may now order at www.parisarmani.com, www.amazon.com and www.barnesandnoble.com in print and Kindle editions.

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Love,
P

5 AM Hustle: Morning Ritual

So I woke up at 5 am and as usual got sucked into the 3 hour social media black-out. In other words I clicked on a Facebook notification and 3 hours later, 8:01 am to be exact I’m at my laptop, coffee mug in hand ready to crank out this week’s 2nd blog post. My laptop is slow as molasses so I can never quite get on and off in 15 minutes like I initially plan, so today I’m calling myself out. i even missed my 45 min morning work-out. I’ve made a decision to purchase a new 8 GB laptop computer on my next pay day to end these 3 hour black-outs once and for all. It’s time to invest in my craft. 5 am is the optimum time for me to start my day in order to master peak performance. I have no time to loose on a crappy computer. The good news is it’s only Tuesday and this is my 2nd blog post for the week, which means I’m right on tract. I’ll definitely be done writing, editing and revising this piece within the next 2 to 3 days, but I absolutely refuse to crank out garbage content anymore for the sake of posting every day and every where. Greatness can’t always be rushed into a day.

So I’ve decided to share a few tips on how I usually wake up, hit the gym at 5 AM, and still manage to get in 90 mins of blog time. Yes I realize you’re not supposed to begin a sentence with “so” but this is one of my idiosyncrasies that help me speak more authentically in the voice in my head, so this is how it’s going down. Let’s dive into these tips.

Tip One: 30 Minute Alarm Trick
My first tip for waking up at 5 AM is to set your alarm 30 mins before 5 AM or the desired time you want to wake up.This is to allow you time to mentally wake up, scrolling through Facebook and basically just being wasteful with your time. You don’t want to waste any time after the 30 minutes of “free-time’ your give yourself.

Tip Two: Mind Over Matter
My second tip is to wake up your mind first, before your body. This is crucial to waking up at ridiculous hours of the morning, and actually staying awake during those first 15 critical minutes of the day. It’s said that the first hour of the day determines if we win the full 24 hours of the day. Well I find it to be equally true that the first 15 minutes determine if we win the first hour of the day.

Tip Three: Create a Morning Ritual
My third tip for waking up at 5 AM is to create a morning ritual using the SAVERS method:

S: 5 mins of Silence
A: 5 mins of Affirmations
V: 5 mins of Visualizations
E: 20 mins of Exercise
R: 20 mins of Reading
S: 5 mins of Scripting/ Journaling

Having a bedtime routine is equally important. I like to meditate 30 minutes before bed, then plan my next day by filling in my weekly planner in 90 minute blocks.

Be sure to be consistent no matter how boring it gets. As you develop the habits of the successful you will begin to reap the rewards of the successful and suddenly boring won’t seem so boring anymore when you start seeing those three digit deposits (okay 2 digit… 2 digit deposits for me but they add up to three digits) hitting your accounts. Just don’t give up before you start seeing results. The funny thing about doubt is that it often trips people up into quitting right when success is withing reach. Just stay focused on doing the one-two step, a concept I talk about in my book, 6 Figure Mindset Coach: Change Your Philosophies, Change Your Life

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Peace&love,

P

Don’t Die Afraid


So I really struggled with cranking out that last blog post. It took 3 or 4 writing sessions of writer’s block, revising and editing, before publishing but I made a promise to myself that I would be more consistent with my blogging. As writers we can sometimes paralyze ourselves trying to write the perfect blog, article, the perfect chapter, or conclusion to an already great piece that we judge ourselves way too harshly, and the end result of course is no blog post for the week. As a professional blogger I live by the philosophy that it’s better to have tried and failed early enough to get back up than it is to have never tried at all. In the end, at our funerals when it’s all said and done I’d rather leave this earth knowing that I took the leap of faith when it counted, even when it meant falling flat on my face a few times than to leave here knowing that I played it safe on the edge of the cliff my whole life, afraid to jump. If we really get honest with ourselves, I don’t think any of us wants to die afraid. In fact, nothing scares me more than the thought of dying afraid.

Sometimes a short but powerful piece can go a lot farther to inspire the reader to action, than a long dragged out full-of-fluff piece ever will.

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Principle of Applied Faith

IT’S GOING TO TAKE FAITH, if only the size of a mustard seed:
 
I’m seriously sitting here stuck … trying to make a boss decision on investing another $150 in my WordPress site to upgrade to Business so I can add a woo shopping cart plug-in with option for credit cards, Paypal, coupon codes, shipping, free shipping, tax for my book sales …
 
I will need these features for my launch
 
I also need that $150 towards a down payment on a car next week 😫😫
 
I’m like seriously froze with my finger on the button …
 
I tell ppl all the time to invest in urself …
 
If I don’t upgrade now it delays my book launch for several months out maybe a year of paying a new car note and insurance …
 
but if I invest now I can make that money back and then some with a successful book launch …which is all I’ve been working on over the last month when I’m not working my 9-5…
 
But if I wait another 2 weeks to get a car I could lose my job due to lack of transportation … the vehicle I drive now will be sold by the owner any day now …
 
Here comes the part when I have to take my own advice,
 
take risk and bet on me!
 
believe in myself…
 
its where stand at a turning point …
 
near the edge of the cliff and my only 2 choices are to
 
take a risk and jump and find my parachute on the way down …
 
or turn around …
 
After writing this post my answer is clear …
 
If ur not willing to be the first person to bet on u … even if that means risking everything
 
Even if that means ur the only one…
 
then how in the world can u expect anyone else to ?
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Principle of Going the Extra Mile

I love working in property management… every day I’m faced with new challenges, meeting deadlines,
 
opportunities to implore problem solving skills, the need to lead a team, to supervise and make them feel heard, understood, and appreciated
 
to handle emergency maintenance requests, welcome new members to the team, dismiss new members from the team,
 
to have an unplanned team meetings when everybody’s gathered to introduce new company polices and procedures
 
to motivate and inspire my team to go the extra mile when they would normally quit,
 
to build rapport with company vendors, property inspectors and housing specialists
 
to take initiative with on the spot decisions and take quick and decisive action
 
to treat all people with dignity and respect, even when they are hostile towards me, or undeserving, to never take anything personal
 
the opportunity to welcome a new family to their new home as I hand them their key
 
and lastly the opportunity to take a 20 year old real estate company from a negative networth balance a step closer every day to breaking even.
 
My boss’ words last week, brought a smile to my face on my way out to the door… “I’m finally beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel. This company has potential.”
 
I practice the principle of going the extra mile on my job and on my personal goals, a principle I talk about in my new book Change Your Philosophies Change Your Life. As a result we passed 3 inspections last week and closed leases on 3 new homes!. Book now available at paris armani dot com. Stay tuned for my upcoming workshop … #BuildingAnOnlineBusinessOnABudget #ZoomWebinar
 
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What’s a Spiritual Entrepreneur?

May you be willing to do whatever it takes get “unstuck’ and take that bountiful leap of faith into that place of greatness called Purpose.

Sometimes I’m struck with an inspirational idea for a new project that I know could potentially not only impact hundreds if not thousands of lives, but that would also position me as a thought leader in the coaching, publishing and speaking industries… but bc it doesn’t come with a ready-made blue-print I fear failure and don’t take that leap of faith.

Does this sound like you?

What happens is we get “stuck” trying to work out all the details before we ever get started and the end result is … we never actually get started.

As a spiritual self-development coach my sole focus is to help my clients transition from that place of mental “stuckness,”  and fear of taking that bountiful leap of faith, and transition into playing FULL OUT on their entrepreneurial spirit!

There is a spiritual entrepreneur in each of us, only we live in a world that doesn’t value or celebrate spiritual gifts.

Playing small with our spiritual gifts is a big mistake because our spiritual gifts are the most abundant resource we as entrepreneurs have  freely accessibly to us for creating and attracting  more abundance in our lives.

For some of us, our spiritual gifts are all we have. It’s time we stopped being afraid of monetizing our gifts, playing full out with our gifts, of  building thriving businesses and careers around our gifts.

 

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What A Spiritual Entrepreneur is Not

A spiritual entrepreneur is not your typical pool-pit Sunday preacher using the word of Elohym to dupe their church members into furnishing their extravagant lifestyles while claiming to be a non-profit organization.

No, those are preachers that I no longer give my money too. My experience with church has shown me that there is far too much corruption in the church when it comes to tithes to give them my money. The Malachi passage on paying tithes has been taken way out of context.

I’d rather invest my money in educational products and courses created by gifted Spiritual Entrepreneurs that I know will give me a seven-fold return on my investment so I can donate more to real NPOs.

The word of Elohym (God) is priceless, and yes it is better to give than to receive, but the word also says we should never give under compulsion, nor should we have to feel compelled to give of our last for the preachers benefit. We are to give from the abundance of our heart.

Our giving is for orphans and widows, which is why I started the non-profit, Children of Israel’s Charity for Orphans and Widows. I live by the philosophy of always setting aside 10% of my income for charitable giving.

Now back to the Word; though the Word is priceless, the Bible it’s self, the ink, the paper, that nice leather book cover … of course we all understand that it costs money to produce the physical book, which means it will cost money purchase the physical book … but the power inherent in those 66 books, the value of the life giving, self-healing, abundance and prosperity producing spiritual treasures contained within those pages could never be measured in dollars and cents.

It’s no different with spiritual entrepreneurs. In a sense, Spiritual Entrepreneurs are creators. It’s not the message, the testimonies, the healing powers or spiritual self development that our clients and customers pay for;

but to put together and host a spiritual retreat costs money to rent a space; to publish a spiritual book costs money for marketing. Not to mention the countless hours the author invested years of research, experience and their skillful ability to organize and present a well organized finished product or service that will literally collapse time into a fraction of the time it took for the creator of said product to abstract the lessons that will take you to the next level.

The transmutation of business building skills does come with a price tag. Ones years of honing their public speaking skills in order to deliver a life-transformational  message comes with a price tag. We don’t pay for the message, we pay for the powerful results that will inevitably show up in our lives. We pay for things we value, and others value your time you have to put a price tag on it or others will demand every minute of it.

A People Business

A Spiritual Entrepreneur is in the people business. We create original content that serves as medicine for the human soul.

We replace financial goals with human impact goals. We think not in terms of how much money will I make from said product or course, but in terms of how many people will it inspire?

Instead of setting a $10k per month financial goal for example, my human impact goal is inspiring 10k lives per month. This is why I often say that Spiritual Entrepreneurship is a people business.

My vision for writing Change Your Philosophies Change Your Life was to inspire 1k Spiritual Entrepreneurs to play Full Out on their entrepreneurial Spirit using the 10 Spiritual Laws and Principles break down. Then of course, I 10Xed it and raised my global impact goal to inspiring 10K Spiritual Entrepreneurs.

If each of those 10k entrepreneurs my book helps to inspire were to go on to inspire just 100 more Entrepreneurs, then the ripple effect of investing in human lives will have a total global impact of inspiring 1M lives.

Spiritual Entrepreneurs are called to set purposeful and meaningful goals that are bigger than themselves. Using their gift of Inspiration they inspire the cooperation of others in their tribe to help spread the mission.

Spiritual Entrepreneurs value people, not things. The irony is that the money comes as a result of making this fundamental mindset shift. Impacting people is the cornerstone of every great purposeful calling.

My wish for you on your Spiritual Entrepreneurship journey is that you arrive to this place called purpose for yourself.

And next time you’re struck with the inspiration to impact thousands of lives, may you push past the fear knowing that hundreds of lives are waiting to be impacted by your work; May you read Change Your Philosophies Change Your Life, hire a coach, and speak it into existence.

May you be willing to do whatever it takes get “unstuck‘ and take that bountiful leap of faith into that place of greatness called Purpose. Know that there is greatness within you… you ARE the blue-print! But sometimes… it takes a coach.

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